How's life, my friend?

 There are times in our lives wherein we doubt our capabilities resulting to stress and pressure. There are also times wherein we fear that we might  not be able to meet the expectations of everybody and we panic thinking that things won't work out. However, there is still a hole in our heart that is telling "go on. you can do that". Now, how can we face fear? How can we encourage ourselves? How can we have a good fight? How can we experience great joy ahead?

Number One, remember that you have great people around you. Just like the famous saying goes "no man is an island", every person has a companion. it doesn't matter whether it is a large group of friends or a small one, what matters is that they are real to you. And it is not necessary for you to find a circle of friends if you have none, remember to go back to your foundation: Your home. Moreover, In order for you to be encouraged to move forward, you have to take in mind that you have some good people willing to be a shoulder to lean on. Maybe you have been struggling because you didn't try to reach out to the people who has been with you since day one.

Number two, reflect on the things that's going on in your head. While you are deliberating about your concerns in your life, something in your head is shouting "give it up, dude. It's not working". I tell you, before you pursue with your decisions, try to reflect if that single specie in your brain is worth listening to. You have to figure out if the life you have is a life worth fighting for. Don't let your emotions rule over you. You have to breathe the hope in and expel the toxic out. Whatever the decisions you create, make sure it will be the best for you. RELAX

Number three, patience is a virtue. I believe that one factor of stressing yourself out is that you are rushing things. You want to be successful, productive and effective in just a blink of an eye. You hurry things so that you can enjoy a good life. Things are not like that, man. Good things come to those who patiently wait. In this case, You have to work for things with perseverance and determination so that in the near future, you will harvest the life you deserve.

Number Four, get some hope. You don't just get some help from the people, you don't just relax and you don't just wait for the right time for things to be okay, You have to seek help to the Maker of all things. It is a necessity to run to the One who is able, to the One who can heal the pain you are feeling, to the One who can answer all your what ifs and whys and to the One who can give you a total rest.  You may wonder if this thing works, but for me it really does. Nothing compares to the comfort that He give and Nothing beats to the Love that He has. Remember that no matter how stress you are, Your Father is waiting for you.

Life is the most complicated thing on earth to deal with. This moment you're okay, the next day you're not. But what is important is that you know how to put up a good fight. Cheer up and bring it on.

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